SOUTH BEND – Not once but twice after he supposedly discovered his online girlfriend of three years never existed, Notre Dame linebacker Manti Teo perpetuated the heartbreaking story about her death.
An Associated Press review of news coverage found that the Heisman Trophy runner-up talked about his doomed love in a Web interview Dec. 8 and again in a newspaper interview published Dec. 10. He and the university said Wednesday that he learned on Dec. 6 that it was all a hoax, that not only wasnt she dead, she wasnt real.
On Thursday, a day after Teos inspiring, playing-through-heartache story was exposed as a bizarre lie, Teo and Notre Dame faced questions from sports writers and fans about whether he really was duped, as he claimed, or whether he and the university were complicit in the hoax and misled the public.
Yahoo sports columnist Dan Wetzel said the case has left everyone wondering whether this was really the case of a naïve football player done wrong by friends or a fabrication that has yet to play to its conclusion.
Gregg Doyel, national columnist for CBSSports.com, wrote was more direct.
Nothing about this story has been comprehensible, or logical, and that extends to what happens next, he wrote. I cannot comprehend Manti Teo saying anything that could make me believe he was a victim.
On Wednesday, Teo and Notre Dame athletic director Jack Swarbrick said the player was drawn into a virtual romance with a woman who used the phony name Lennay Kekua and was fooled into believing she died of leukemia in September. They said his only contact with the woman was via the Internet and telephone.
Teo also lost his grandmother – for real – the same day his girlfriend supposedly died, and his role in leading Notre Dame to its best season in decades endeared him to fans and put him at the center of college footballs biggest feel-good story of the year.
Relying on information provided by Teos family members, the South Bend Tribune reported in October that Teo and Kekua first met, in person, in 2009, and that the two had also gotten together in Hawaii, where Teo grew up.
Sports Illustrated posted a previously unpublished transcript of a one-on-one interview with Teo from Sept. 23. In it, he goes into great detail about his relationship with Kekua and her physical ailments. He also mentioned meeting her for the first time after a game in California.
Among the outstanding questions Thursday: Why didnt Teo ever clarify the nature of his relationship as the story took on a life of its own?
Teos agent, Tom Condon, said the athlete had no plans to make any public statements Thursday in Bradenton, Fla., where he has been training with other NFL hopefuls, including Irish tight end and Bishop Dwenger grad Tyler Eifert, at the IMG Academy.
Notre Dame said Teo found out that Kekua was not a real person through a phone call he received at an awards ceremony in Orlando, Fla., on Dec. 6. He told Notre Dame coaches about the situation on Dec. 26.
The APs media review turned up two instances during that gap when Teo mentioned Kekua in public.
Teo was in New York for the Heisman presentation on Dec. 8 and, during an interview before the ceremony that ran on WSBT.com, the website for a South Bend TV station, Teo said: I mean, I dont like cancer at all. I lost both my grandparents and my girlfriend to cancer. So Ive really tried to go to childrens hospitals and see, you know, children.
In a column that first ran in the Los Angeles Times on Dec. 10, Teo recounted why he played a few days after he found out Kekua died in September, and the day she was supposedly buried.
She made me promise, when it happened, that I would stay and play, he said on Dec. 9 while attending a ceremony in Newport Beach, Calif., for the Lott Impact Awards.
On Wednesday, when Deadspin.com broke the story, Swarbrick said Notre Dame did not go public with its findings sooner because it expected the Teo family to come forward first.
Asked if the NCAA was monitoring the Teo story for possible rules violations, NCAA President Mark Emmert said:
We dont know anything more than you do, he told reporters at the organizations convention in Dallas. Were learning about this through the stories just the same as you are. But we have to wait and see what really transpired there. Its obviously (a) very disturbing story, and its hard to tell where the facts lie at this point.
But Notre Dame is obviously looking into it and there will be a lot more to come forward. Right now, it just looks ... well, we dont know what the facts are, so I shouldnt comment beyond that.
Reporters were turned away at the main gate of IMGs secure complex. Teo remained on the grounds, said a person familiar with situation.
TimelineChronology of how the fake girlfriend story grew:
Sept. 13: Asked by reporters, Notre Dame coach Brian Kelly says Teo will play against Michigan State that Saturday despite the deaths that week of two people close to him. Media reports the next day identify the two as his grandmother and his girlfriend, Lennay Kekua.
Sept. 15: Teo has 12 tackles and breaks up two passes and the Irish win 20-3 at Michigan State. Teo says afterward I lost two women that I truly love and that he had my girlfriends family around me.
Sept. 23: In a one-on-one interview with Sports Illustrated, Teo talks at length about his relationship with Kekua and her many health issues, making only one vague reference to meeting her for the first time in California in 2009. He told SI they had been dating for a year.
Oct. 1: A Sports Illustrated cover story describes how Teo received a call from Kekuas older brother informing him of her death.
Oct. 3: Teo says at a media availability that during the walk-through before the Irishs Sept. 22 game against Michigan, he asked what time it was and realized Kekuas casket had been closed a minute earlier. He says she wanted him to skip her funeral to play.
Oct. 12: A South Bend Tribune article, based on information from Teos father, describes how Teo and Kekua met at a 2009 game at Stanford. Teos father, Brian, says she would visit him in Hawaii.
Nov. 14: In an Associated Press story, Teo says that every morning I wake up and my girlfriend is not on the phone. It reminds me that shes gone. Thats the hardest part.
Dec. 8: South Bend television station WSBT shoots video of Teo saying in a pre-Heisman interview in New York, I lost both my grandparents and my girlfriend to cancer. Thats two days after the date given by Notre Dame athletic director Jack Swarbrick for when Teo found out about the hoax.
Dec. 9: At the Lott Impact Awards dinner, Teo says that Kekua made me promise, when it happened, that I would stay and play.
Jan. 5: At the media day before the BCS title game, Teo talks about his travails during the season, saying, My team was always there for me, and my family was always there for me.